tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-36713917895992913182024-02-19T03:14:24.432-08:00the faith seed. Two years ago I was a full blown heroin and meth addict. I was near death. If the streets didn't kill me, suicide or overdose was going to. For the first time in my life, I decided to surrender completely to the Lord. Bit by bit, with the help of Jesus Christ, I am slowly climbing out of the darkness. With the help of the Lord, I will make it. If the simple act of deciding to trust in the Lord can heal me, it can heal ANYONE from anything. Join me in my journey of new found faith.Kelly Herberthttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17638632065233053961noreply@blogger.comBlogger6125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3671391789599291318.post-29851931115193313432017-03-12T15:56:00.000-07:002017-03-13T19:49:53.665-07:00The Most Misunderstood Symptom of PTSD <div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">
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Because of this, I experienced many traumatic events that caused some pretty severe PTSD symptoms. If anyone has ever experienced extreme emotional symptoms from trauma, they know how challenging life can become when trying to cope. The frightening experiences I had literally changed the world I live in. While I don't currently live in continuing danger as I did before, my brain has yet to accept the fact that I am safe. I experience many of the common symptoms of PTSD, such as, strong feelings of guilt, sleep disturbances, and feelings of worthlessness. I go into fight or flight mode many times during the day and I still get a couple dozen flashbacks during my day. Flashbacks that bring me right back into a traumatic event and my body reacts as though I am experiencing it in the moment. </div>
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One of the most challenging symptoms I experience is a feeling that there is imminent danger when there is not. My brain is constantly looking for the threat. Its as though is is on a mission to sort out where the danger is, almost continually. As you can imagine it can be very exhausting. I use techniques to help remind myself I am not in danger, but my brain is "trained" to seek out the threat to protect me. </div>
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As I got sober and started really feelings my feelings, I recognized that this was happening and wasn't going anywhere anytime soon. How frustrating! To make matters worse, I began to judge myself for it by calling myself paranoid. I mean really, how many people feel the fight or flight response while making themselves dinner on a normal evening at home? I felt so paranoid!! Turns out I am not paranoid at all, I am hyper-vigilant.</div>
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Dealing with these symptoms are hard enough without putting incorrect labels such as "paranoid" on ourselves. We aren't paranoid. We are survivors and we have brains that helped us cope at the time we survived our trauma and those same AMAZING brains are helping us to survive today. Our brain chemistry will heal over time, we can and will learn a new way to navigate the world. In the meantime, understanding our symptoms and not judging ourselves is so very important!</div>
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The symptoms of PTSD are very serious and are difficult to manage. If you suspect you or someone else is experiencing symptoms please seek out professional help. Please see below for some resources on finding help.</div>
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<strong>800-FYI-CALL (800-394-2255)</strong><br />
The National Center for Victims of Crime provides information, education, and referrals to local resources across the country. The hotline is available Monday through Friday from 8:30 am to 8:30 pm and is offered in numerous languages.</div>
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<strong>800-799-SAFE (800-799-7233) and 800-787-3224 (TDD)</strong><br />
The mission of the National Domestic Violence Hotline is to provide crisis intervention, safety planning, information, and referrals for individuals experiencing domestic violence. The hotline is available 24 hours a day, and assistance is offered in numerous languages.</div>
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<strong>800-TRY-NOVA (800-879-6682)</strong><br />
NOVA's mission is to promote rights and services for victims of crime and crisis. The hotline provides information and referrals and is available 24 hours a day.</div>
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<span style="font-kerning: none;">I don't know that I had just one a-ha moment that told me I was an addict and an alcoholic. I started using and drinking as a young teenager. I always knew that I partied harder than anyone around me could keep up. It was never a secret to myself or anyone in my life that I had a serious problem.</span></div>
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<span style="font-kerning: none;">But what if someone doesn't have such an obvious problem as mine? What if its a behavior that has popped up later in life for someone who has never shown addict behavior previously. Or what if its a sixteen year old that thinks, "I'm too young to be an addict." "I'm just curious and experimenting."</span></div>
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<span style="-webkit-font-kerning: none;">The concept of surrendering my will to God’s will has always seemed a very foreign concept for this drug addict. I once believed that my survival absolutely depended upon my wits and my ability to control the outcome of any given situation. I think that is a pretty typical thought process for an addict. </span><span style="font-kerning: none;"> When one is an addict, surrender means defeat. If an addict admits defeat, or the need to surrender, then the belief system is that all of what is left, is lost. Usually, what is left when the person is ready to surrender isn’t much.. at least that was the case for me. The desire and drive to hang on and fight for control is an instinct ingrained in the addicts primal mind. Its as powerful an instinct as the need to drink water or to run when there is danger. And the instinct is a lie.</span></h3>
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<span style="font-kerning: none;">I don’t know what the thought process is like for a normal person, a non-addict. I have shown addict behavior since I was 7 years old. It is the only way my brain has EVER worked. It seems as though I was born with a self destruct button in my mind and a life long overwhelming desire to push it, again and again… and again. For 40 years, I pushed that button and crawled and scratched my way through life. I’m a good person, and I have always wanted good things, to live like those I saw around me, I just didn’t know how. Normal life is a concept I could never grasp. So I fought…and struggled and fought some more to have the life I was “supposed” to live. </span></div>
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<span style="font-kerning: none;">The end of the road for me, my “bottom” as some would call it, was not pretty. I was a disaster and near death. I had lost my children, my family, my sanity, my ability to support myself, and my spiritual protection. I had lost everything but the air in my lungs. Life was unbearable and due to the people I ended up around, it was extremely dangerous. All I wanted was to be home with my family and I had no idea how to get there. I’d been doing this dance with destruction for 40 years… that’s a long time. Most said I was a lost cause. My own family had grieved me as if I were dead. I knew I was at the end of my life.</span></div>
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<span style="font-kerning: none;">I truly believe, that the moment that one completely surrenders to God’s will is the most important choice that an addict (or human) makes. It IS the moment that will save an addicts life. </span></div>
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<span style="font-kerning: none;">Through this process of change, there are many moments of self doubt. With a lifetime of poor decision making, I often wonder at times if a choice I am making is the right one. Praying for guidance and comfort, then trusting in myself to interpret the spirit can feel confusing and overwhelming. While at times I feel "tuned in" to the spirit, more often than not, I get lost and distracted when fear and my expectations cloud what the spirit is trying to say to me. </span></div>
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<span style="font-kerning: none;">It was only my second night in Denver. In needing a complete disconnection from the people of my past, I moved to Denver and into an apartment with my niece. It's a quaint, little apartment in an old brick building near the downtown area. That particular night, my niece had left to hang out with friends and I was alone in the apartment. I was feeling a mixture of emotions, but mainly what I was feeling was overwhelming anxiety. Being in a new place, an entirely new city..felt very unsettling. I didn't know my way around and other than my niece I didn't know a soul. That night I couldn't get my phone's internet to work. It being Saturday night, I was hoping to make it to church the next day. The problem was, I didn't know where the chapel was or what time church started but I felt strongly that I needed to get there. I was also on foot so I knew that if it was 9:00 am start time I would have to figure out transportation and where to go. </span></div>
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<span style="font-kerning: none;">Feeling the walls were closing in on me, I went outside back of our apartment to get some fresh air and think. The back alley outside is about as daunting as any back alley can be. It's a beautiful view of the city, but you have to look past the insulin needles and meth/crack pipes laying all over. The little orange caps from the needles quite literally sprinkle the ground around the alley. There are typically addicts and homeless people everywhere. You can find them digging through the dumpster, laying in the dark corners on the pavement, or sitting on the short brick wall resting. As I stepped outside and breathed in the night air..my eyes looking at the paraphernalia on the ground I began to really doubt my decision to move. Moving here to Denver was a decision that was carefully made with a lot of prayer. My sister and I spent weeks praying and waiting for the inspiration before choosing this place. The way it fell together seemed inspired. But that night seemed, looking around, that maybe we had made a mistake. As a recovering drug addict, how could the Lord have chosen this to be the place that I would recover and start life over? Feeling doubt, I asked Heavenly Father to please comfort me and let me know I had made the right decision to move here. I said a short, but very heartfelt prayer for comfort. </span></div>
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<span style="font-kerning: none;">After my prayer, I went back inside and took off my coat and my shoes. I went to go sit down and at that very moment, there was gentle knock at the door. I opened the door and there were two sister missionaries standing there. </span></div>
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<span style="font-kerning: none;">My niece had lived in this apartment for over a year without a visit from any missionaries or anyone from the church. But on this night, literally moments after my prayer, there they were. I of course invited them in and shared the story with them. We laughed and teared up together. It was an amazing moment for all of us. I teased them for weeks that they showed up that night faster than Jimmy Johns. I mean talk about freaky fast.:)</span><br />
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Many people know the dread that can wash over a person when they are about to walk into the Bishop's office and confess something for the first time. Tired of feeling the deep shame and carrying the burden of sin alone, one bravely makes the decision to do what seems like the impossible... confess to the Bishop. Sitting outside his office with jittery feet and sweaty palms awaiting your turn, one feels complete terror of the upcoming moment. The moment when the secret he's been holding will finally fall from his lips and into the Bishop's ears. </h3>
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Soon, it will be my turn to share the secrets I have been holding for years with my Bishop... GULP. To say it mildly, each time I think about saying certain things out loud, I begin to feel paralyzed. I think, "Am I really about to do this?" or " Will I be able to say to him things that are almost impossible to say to myself?" ... Double GULP.</div>
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This whole process of repentance is brand new to me. While I was raised in the LDS church, my parents became inactive when I was 13 years old. Other than a sacrament meeting here or there over the years, I have been completely inactive for 28 years. In fact, I've been gone so long I somehow went from "inactive" to "less active" with no effort at all! ;). I have struggled with drug addiction and alcoholism for most of my life. Let's just say my list of things to discuss with bishop isn't exactly .. uh .. short.</div>
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For years my addiction problems seemed hopeless. No matter what I tried, I was unable to make real headway towards healing and living a clean and sober life. I felt utterly alone and abandoned by God. Things began to change a couple of years ago. After an unexpected and powerful spiritual experience, I began to realize that I wasn't doing this journey alone after all. I started to hand things in my life over to God. I didn't believe it would work at first, but I was willing to give the "faith experiment" one good try before I gave into giving up on myself for good. Bit by bit, moment by moment, miracles have begun manifesting themselves in my life. The choice to act in faith changed my entire world. </div>
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While I have already begun to live differently and stop sinning in the ways I was before, it is very important to me to go through the formal process of repentance with my Bishop. I have not been worthy to take the sacrament in 28 years. I have never received my Patriarchal blessing. These are things I very much want. Someday, when Heavenly Father feels I am ready, I want to enter the the temple and make my covenants with the Lord. </div>
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All of those blessings start with this one upcoming terrifying moment. So I will not let the fear stop me and I will be bold in the Bishop's office. I will not mute or minimize my past. I will take absolute responsibility for my actions and trust that the Lord will find a way to continue to remove the guilt and shame and replace it with peace and joy . I will believe His words and promises about repentance. I will have Faith that it is possible for my weaknesses to become great strengths.<br />
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